{"fatawa":{"id":10811,"title":"She wants to marry a man whom she loves but he previously committed zina with her mother","slug":"she-wants-to-marry-a-man-whom-she-loves-but-he-previously-committed-zina-with-her-mother","order":"","question":"<p>I have a friend who wants to marry a man whom she loves dearly, but the  problem is that this man once committed zina with her mother who was  married and had three children at that time. It was a mistake committed  in a moment of heedlessness. My question is: what should she do? Is it  permissible for them to marry?.<\/p>","answer":"<div class=\"list-group-item-text ftwa-single-answer font-nrmal\"><span class=\"line_height\"> Praise be to Allaah.\r\n<p>The fuqaha&rsquo; differed concerning one who commits zina with a        woman: is it permissible for him to marry her daughter or not? There are        two views:&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>The Hanafis and Hanbalis are of the view that it is not      permissible for him; they regarded haraam intercourse as being like halaal      intercourse with regard to who becomes a mahram as the result of a      marriage.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>The Maalikis and Shaafa&lsquo;is are of the view that he may marry      her.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Ibn Qudaamah (may Allah have mercy on him) said: Haraam      intercourse creates the same mahram relationships as halaal intercourse or      intercourse as the result of a dubious marriage - meaning that those who      become mahrams as a result are confirmed in all three cases. So if a man      commits zina with a woman, she becomes haraam to his father and son, and her      mother and daughter become haraam to him. Something similar to that was      narrated from &lsquo;Imraan ibn Husayn, and this was also the view of al-Hasan,      &lsquo;Ata&rsquo;, Tawoos, Mujaahid, al-Sha&lsquo;bi, al-Nakha&lsquo;i, al-Thawri, Ishaaq and ashaab      al-ra&rsquo;y.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Ibn &lsquo;Abbaas narrated that haraam intercourse does not make      anyone a mahram. This was also the view of Sa&lsquo;eed ibn al-Musayyab, Yahya ibn      Ya&lsquo;mir, &lsquo;Urwah, al-Zuhri, Maalik, al-Shaafa&lsquo;i, Abu Thawr and Ibn al-Mundhir.      End quote from <em>al-Mughni<\/em>, 7\/90.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>The more correct view is that of the Maalikis and Shaafa&lsquo;is,      that it does not make anyone a mahram. See also the answer to question      number <a href=\"http:\/\/islamqa.info\/en\/78597\">78597<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>But our advice is that this marriage should not go ahead for      two reasons:&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>1.<\/p>\r\n<p>So as to be on the safe side and avoid an area of scholarly      dispute, because she is haraam to him according to many scholars, especially      the Hanafi madhhab that is prevalent in your country.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>2.<\/p>\r\n<p>If he marries her, that will lead to him being close to her      mother and being in touch with her, and there is the fear that this would      remind him of that haraam action or tempt him to do it again, or it may be a      cause of the woman (the mother) being tempted. We ask Allah to keep us all      safe and sound.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>If your friend is in a relationship with this man, this      indicates that he is corrupt and deviant, as he did not have any religious      commitment that could have deterred him from committing zina with a woman      who had three children and forming a relationship with her daughter. Such a      man cannot be trusted at all. Your friend has to end her relationship with      him. Perhaps Allah will send her a chaste husband who is not contaminated      with this evil and sin.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>And Allah knows best.<\/p>\r\n<\/span><\/div>\r\n<div style=\"padding: 3px; padding-right: 6px; text-align: right;\">Islam Q&amp;A<\/div>","status":1,"created_at":"2015-04-11T20:51:59.000000Z","updated_at":"2015-04-11T20:51:59.000000Z","language_id":1,"fatawacate_id":42,"parent_id":10810,"author_id":"","books":[],"articles":[],"videos":[],"audios":[],"author_name":"","category_name":"\u0627\u0644\u0645\u062d\u0631\u0645\u0627\u062a \u0645\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0633\u0627\u0621","category_slug":"","get_date":"2015-04-11"},"translations":[],"fatawa_books":[],"fatawa_articles":[],"fatawa_videos":[],"fatawa_audios":[],"url":"http:\/\/www.islamland.com\/eng\/api\/fatawas\/10811"}