Aç\u0131k-saç\u0131k kad\u0131nlara bakmaktan dolay\u0131 çok s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 çekmekteyim. Ço\u011fu zaman nefsime gâlip gelemiyor ve kad\u0131nlara bakmaktan yüzümü çeviremiyorum. Lütfen bana nasihat eder misiniz? Bu konuda ne yapmal\u0131y\u0131m?<\/p>","answer":"
Hamd, yaln\u0131zca Allah'ad\u0131r.<\/p>\r\n
Her kim, kendisine zehirli bir yara isâbet etmi\u015fse, o zehiri ç\u0131karmas\u0131 ve o yaray\u0131 panzehir ve merhemle tedâvi ederek iyile\u015ftirmesi gerekir.Bu ise \u015fu hususlar\u0131n yerine getirilmesi ile mümkün olur:<\/p>\r\n
Birincisi:<\/p>\r\n
Evlenmesi gerekir. Çünkü Peygamber -sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem- bu konuda \u015föyle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/p>\r\n
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\"\u015eüphesiz kad\u0131n, yüzünü dönüp geldi\u011fi zaman, (vesvese verme ve sapt\u0131rma hususunda) \u015feytan\u0131n sûretinde gelir.Biriniz ho\u015funa giden (güzel) bir kad\u0131n gördü\u011fü zaman, hemen han\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131na gitsin (onunla birle\u015fsin\/cinsel ili\u015fkiye girsin). Çünkü o kad\u0131nda olan fercin benzeri, kendi han\u0131m\u0131nda da vard\u0131r.\" (Tirmizî rivâyet etmi\u015f, Elbânî de \"Sahîhu'l-Câmi\"'de hadisin sahih oldu\u011funu belirtmi\u015ftir.Hadis no: 1158).<\/p>\r\n
Evlilik, \u015fehveti azaltan ve a\u015fk\u0131 zay\u0131flatan sebeplerden birisidir.<\/p>\r\n
\u0130kincisi:<\/p>\r\n
Be\u015f vakit farz namazlara devam etmesi, seher vaktinde Allah Teâlâ'ya duâ etmesi, O'na yalvar\u0131p yakarmas\u0131, kalbi ve bedeni ile kendisini namaz\u0131na vermesi gerekir.<\/p>\r\n
Ayr\u0131ca \u015fu iki duây\u0131 çokça okumal\u0131d\u0131r:<\/p>\r\n
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\"Ey kalpleri (kimi zaman itaate, kimi zaman da günaha) yönlendiren (Allah\u0131m!) Kalbimi, senin dînin üzere sâbit k\u0131l (dîninden ve dosdo\u011fru yolundan sapt\u0131rma.\" (Tirmizî rivâyet etmi\u015f, Elbânî de \"Sahîhu'l-Câmi\"'de hadisin sahih oldu\u011funu belirtmi\u015ftir. Hadis no: 4801).<\/p>\r\n
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\"Ey kalpleri (kimi zaman itaate ve kimi zaman günaha) yönlendiren (Allah\u0131m!) Kalbimi, sana itaate ve Rasûlüne itaate yönlendir.\" (Elbânî \"el-\u0130hticâc bil-Kader\"de hadisin sahih oldu\u011funu belirtmi\u015ftir. Hadis no: 46.<\/p>\r\n
Çünkü bir kimse ne zaman Allah Teâlâ'ya duâ etmeye, O'na yalvar\u0131p yakarmaya devam ederse, Allah Teâlâ onun kalbini o \u015feyden çevirir.<\/p>\r\n
Nitekim Allah Teâlâ Yusuf -aleyhisselâm- hakk\u0131nda \u015föyle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/p>\r\n
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\"\u0130\u015fte böylece biz, (her i\u015finde) kötülük ve fuh\u015fu ondan uzakla\u015ft\u0131rmak için (ona delillerimizi gösterdik). \u015eüphesiz o, ihlasl\u0131 kullar\u0131m\u0131zdand\u0131.\" (Yusuf Sûresi: 24).<\/p>\r\n
Bkz: \u015eeyhulislâm \u0130bn-i Teymiyye'nin; \"el-Fetâvâ'l-Kubrâ\"; c: 3, S: 77.<\/p>\r\n
Üçüncüsü:<\/p>\r\n
Aç\u0131k-saç\u0131k kad\u0131nlar\u0131n bulunduklar\u0131 yerlerden kendisini uzak tutmal\u0131, kalbe tesir eden ve onu zay\u0131flatan aç\u0131k-saç\u0131k kad\u0131n resimleri gösteren televizyon kanallar\u0131na bakmaktan uzak durmal\u0131d\u0131r. <\/p>\r\n<\/span><\/div>\r\n