{"fatawa":{"id":1610,"title":"\u0130nsan, (fiillerinde) m\u00fcseyyer (g\u00fcd\u00fcml\u00fc ve mecburi) midir? Yoksa muhayyer (h\u00fcr ve serbest) midir?","slug":"insan-fiillerinde-mueseyyer-gueduemlue-ve-mecburi-midir-yoksa-muhayyer-huer-ve-serbest-midir","order":"","question":"Kaderimiz yaz\u0131l\u0131 m\u0131d\u0131r? Baz\u0131 kimseler: Gitti\u011fimiz yolda h\u00fcr ve serbest oldu\u011fumuzu, fakat bu yolun sonunda bulaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015feyin, Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2'n\u0131n bizim i\u00e7in takdir etti\u011fi \u015fey oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemektedir. Ben, bu konuda kaderi belki Cehm b. Safv\u00e2n'\u0131n \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2'dan olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da okudum.\r\nKur'an'da bu konuda nerede bilgiler bulabilirim? E\u011fer kaderler takdir edilmi\u015f ise, Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2'n\u0131n bu kaderlerden takdir etti\u011fi oran ka\u00e7t\u0131r? Benimle ileride evlenecek olan ki\u015finin do\u011fdu\u011fu g\u00fcn\u00fcn, ne zaman ve nerede \u00f6lece\u011finin bilindi\u011fi hususu do\u011fru mudur?\r\n\u0130leride evlenmem gereken ki\u015fiyle kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya gelsem, fakat herhangi bir \u015fekilde yanl\u0131\u015f yolu se\u00e7mi\u015f olsam, bu ki\u015fi tekrar yoluma (kar\u015f\u0131ma) \u00e7\u0131kar m\u0131? Yoksa bu benim kaderim ve cezam olacak, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla bu ki\u015fiyi hayat\u0131mda bir daha elde edemeyece\u011fim mi?","answer":"
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Hamd, yaln\u0131zca Allah'ad\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Kadere îmân, îmân esaslar\u0131n\u0131n bir rüknüdür.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Nitekim Nebi -sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem- Cebrail -aleyhisselâm-'\u0131n îmân hakk\u0131nda sordu\u011funda onun sorusuna \u015föyle cevap vermi\u015ftir:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

((... \u0627\u064e\u0644\u0625\u0652\u0650\u064a\u0645\u0627\u064e\u0646\u064f \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u062a\u064f\u0624\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0646\u064e \u0628\u0627\u0650\u0644\u0644\u0647\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0644\u0627\u064e\u0626\u0650\u0643\u064e\u062a\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0643\u064f\u062a\u064f\u0628\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0631\u064f\u0633\u064f\u0644\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0652\u064a\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0645\u0650 \u0627\u0652\u0644\u0622\u062e\u0650\u0631\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u062a\u064f\u0624\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0646\u064e \u0628\u0627\u0650\u0644\u0652\u0642\u064e\u062f\u064e\u0631\u0650 \u062e\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0634\u064e\u0631\u0651\u0650\u0647\u0650.)) [ \u0631\u0648\u0627\u0647 \u0645\u0633\u0644\u0645 \u0645\u0646 \u062d\u062f\u064a\u062b \u0623\u0628\u064a \u0647\u0631\u064a\u0631\u0629 ]<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Îmân; Allah’a, meleklerine, kitaplar\u0131na, elçilerine, âhiret gününe, kaderin hay\u0131r ve \u015ferrine inanmand\u0131r.\" (Müslim, Ebu Hureyre'den -Allah ondan râz\u0131 olsun rivâyet etmi\u015ftir.)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Kaderden kas\u0131t; Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n ezelde her \u015feyi takdir etmesi ve kat\u0131nda bilinen vakitlerde bu \u015feylerin, belirli vas\u0131flarda ve O'nun bunlar\u0131 yazmas\u0131, dilemesi, takdir etmesi ve yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fekilde olmas\u0131yla vukû bulaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmesidir. (Abdurrahman el-Mahmûd; 'Kaza ve Kader', s: 39)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Kadere îmân, dört hususa îmân etmekle ayakta durur:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

1. \u0130lim: Yani Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n, ezeli ilmiyle kullar\u0131n\u0131n yapmakta olduklar\u0131n\u0131 bilir.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

2. Kitâbe (yazma): Yani Allah Teâlâ, kullar\u0131n\u0131n kaderlerini Levh-i Mahfûz'a yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

3. Me\u015fiet (dileme\/irâde): Yani Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n diledi\u011fi olur, dilemedi\u011fi de olmaz. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla göklerde ve yerde olan her hareket veya durgunluk, ancak O'nun dilemesiyle olur.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

4. Yaratma ve tekvin: Yani Allah Teâlâ, her \u015feyin yarat\u0131c\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Bu \u015feylerden birisi de kullar\u0131n\u0131n fiilleridir. Kullar\u0131, o fiilleri gerçekte i\u015fliyorlar, ama hem kullar\u0131n\u0131, hem de onlar\u0131n fiillerini yaratan O'dur.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Her kim, bu dört hususa îmân ederse, gerçekten kadere îmân etmi\u015f olur.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Kur'an-\u0131 Kerim bu hususlar\u0131 birçok âyette onaylam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Nitekim bu âyetlerin birisinde Allah Teâlâ \u015föyle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

 (( \u0648\u064e\u0639\u0650\u0646\u062f\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0645\u064e\u0641\u064e\u0627\u062a\u0650\u062d\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0652\u063a\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0628\u0650 \u0644\u0627\u064e \u064a\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0644\u064e\u0645\u064f\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0625\u0650\u0644\u0627\u0651\u064e \u0647\u064f\u0648\u064e \u0648\u064e\u064a\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0644\u064e\u0645\u064f \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0628\u064e\u0631\u0651\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0628\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0631\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u062a\u064e\u0633\u0652\u0642\u064f\u0637\u064f \u0645\u0650\u0646 \u0648\u064e\u0631\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0629\u064d \u0625\u0650\u0644\u0627\u0651\u064e \u064a\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0644\u064e\u0645\u064f\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u0644\u0627\u064e \u062d\u064e\u0628\u0651\u064e\u0629\u064d \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0638\u064f\u0644\u064f\u0645\u064e\u0627\u062a\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0623\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0636\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0644\u0627\u064e \u0631\u064e\u0637\u0652\u0628\u064d \u0648\u064e\u0644\u0627\u064e \u064a\u064e\u0627\u0628\u0650\u0633\u064d \u0625\u0650\u0644\u0627\u0651\u064e \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0643\u0650\u062a\u064e\u0627\u0628\u064d \u0645\u0651\u064f\u0628\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064d )) [ \u0633\u0648\u0631\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0623\u0646\u0639\u0627\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0622\u064a\u0629: 59 ]<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Gayb\u0131n anahtarlar\u0131 (hazineleri) O'nun kat\u0131ndad\u0131r, O'ndan ba\u015fkas\u0131 onlar\u0131 bilmez. O, karada ve denizde ne varsa hepsini bilir;  O'nun ilmi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir yaprak bile dü\u015fmez. O, yerin karanl\u0131klar\u0131 içindeki tek bir taneyi dahi bilir. Ya\u015f ve kuru ne varsa, hepsi apaç\u0131k bir kitapta (Levh-i Mahfuz'da)d\u0131r.\" (En'âm Sûresi: 59)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Ba\u015fka bir âyette \u015föyle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

(( \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0635\u064e\u0627\u0628\u064e \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0645\u064f\u0635\u0650\u064a\u0628\u064e\u0629\u064d \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0623\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0636\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627 \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652\u0641\u064f\u0633\u0650\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0625\u0650\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0627 \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0643\u0650\u062a\u064e\u0627\u0628\u064d \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0642\u064e\u0628\u0652\u0644\u0650 \u0623\u064e\u0646 \u0646\u0651\u064e\u0628\u0652\u0631\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e \u0630\u064e\u0644\u0650\u0643\u064e \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u064a\u064e\u0633\u0650\u064a\u0631\u064c )) [ \u0633\u0648\u0631\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u062d\u062f\u064a\u062f \u0627\u0644\u0622\u064a\u0629: 22 ]<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"(Ey insanlar!) Yeryüzünde ve kendi nefislerinizde u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z (hastal\u0131k ve açl\u0131k gibi) hiçbir musibet yoktur ki, biz onu yaratmadan önce, bir kitapta (Levh-i Mahfuz'da) yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131n. \u015eüphesiz bu, Allah'a göre kolayd\u0131r.\" (Hadîd Sûresi: 22)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

  Yine \u015föyle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

(( \u0644\u0650\u0645\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0634\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064e \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u0633\u0652\u062a\u064e\u0642\u0650\u064a\u0645\u064e * \u0648\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u062a\u064e\u0634\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e \u0625\u0650\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0651\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u0634\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u064f \u0631\u064e\u0628\u0651\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0639\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e\u0645\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e)) [ \u0633\u0648\u0631\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u062a\u0643\u0648\u064a\u0631 \u0627\u0644\u0622\u064a\u062a\u0627\u0646: \u0662\u0668 – \u0662\u0669 ]<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Sizden, do\u011fru yolda (îmân üzere) gitmek isteyenler için (bu bir ö\u011füttür). Âlemlerin Rabbi Allah dilemedikçe, siz (hiçbir \u015fey) dilemeyemezsiniz (ne do\u011fru yolda gidersiniz, ne de  ona gücünüz yeter).\" (Tekvîr Sûresi: 28-29 )<\/span><\/p>\r\n

(( \u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0627 \u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u064e \u0634\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0621\u064d \u062e\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0642\u0652\u0646\u064e\u0627\u0647\u064f \u0628\u0650\u0642\u064e\u062f\u064e\u0631\u064d )) [ \u0633\u0648\u0631\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0642\u0645\u0631 \u0627\u0644\u0622\u064a\u0629: 49 ]<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Muhakkak ki biz, her \u015feyi bir ölçüye göre yaratt\u0131k.\" (Kamer Sûresi: 49)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Abdullah b. Amr. b. Âs'tan -Allah ondan ve babas\u0131ndan râz\u0131 olsun- rivâyet olundu\u011funa göre, o \u015föyle demi\u015ftir:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

(( \u0633\u064e\u0645\u0650\u0639\u0652\u062a\u064f \u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u0635\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0645\u064e \u064a\u064e\u0642\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064f: \u0643\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0628\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0645\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0627\u062f\u0650\u064a\u0631\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0652\u062e\u064e\u0644\u0627\u064e\u0626\u0650\u0642\u0650 \u0642\u064e\u0628\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u062e\u0652\u0644\u064f\u0642\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0651\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0648\u064e\u0627\u062a\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0623\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0636\u064e \u0628\u0650\u062e\u064e\u0645\u0652\u0633\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0623\u064e\u0644\u0652\u0641\u064e \u0633\u064e\u0646\u064e\u0629\u064d. \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e: \u0648\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0634\u064f\u0647\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0621\u0650.))[ \u0631\u0648\u0627\u0647 \u0645\u0633\u0644\u0645 ]<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Rasûlullah-sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem-'i \u015föyle derken i\u015fittim:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

-Allah Teâlâ, gökleri ve yeri yaratmadan elli bin y\u0131l önce, mahlukat\u0131n kaderlerini (Levh-i Mahfûz'a) yazd\u0131. Ve ar\u015f\u0131 su üzerindeydi.\" (Müslim)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Bununla \"kaderi, Cehm b. Safvân ç\u0131kard\u0131\" sözünün do\u011fruluk pay\u0131n\u0131n ve asl\u0131n\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 aç\u0131kça görmü\u015f oldunuz.Çünkü kader yarat\u0131lmaz. Aksine yarat\u0131lanlar, kadere îmân\u0131n içindedirler. Cehm b. Safvân, sadece kaderin sübutu konusunda a\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya gitmi\u015f ve insanlar\u0131n, fiillerinde mecbur olduklar\u0131n\u0131, onlar\u0131n hiçbir tercih ve seçme haklar\u0131n\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 iddiâ etmi\u015ftir. Bu söz, bât\u0131ld\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Ehl-i sünnet vel'-cemaatin üzerinde oldu\u011fu görü\u015f; kulun dileme (irâde) ve tercih (seçme) hakk\u0131 vard\u0131r.Bunun içindir ki kul, fiilinden dolay\u0131 sevap al\u0131r veya azap görür. Fakat onun dilemesi (irâdesi), Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n dilemsine tâbidir.Kâinatta, Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n dilemedi\u011fi hiçbir \u015fey vukû bulmaz.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Baz\u0131 kimselerin söylemi\u015f olduklar\u0131: \"Gitti\u011fimiz yolda hür ve serbest oldu\u011fumuzu, fakat bu yolun sonunda bulaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u015feyin, Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n sizin için takdir etti\u011fi \u015feydir\" sözü, do\u011fru sözdür.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Nitekim Allah Teâlâ bu konuda \u015föyle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

(( \u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0627 \u0647\u064e\u062f\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0646\u064e\u0627\u0647\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0651\u064e\u0628\u0650\u064a\u0644\u064e \u0625\u0650\u0645\u0651\u064e\u0627 \u0634\u064e\u0627\u0643\u0650\u0631\u0627\u064b \u0648\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0645\u0651\u064e\u0627 \u0643\u064e\u0641\u064f\u0648\u0631\u0627\u064b )) [ \u0633\u0648\u0631\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0625\u0646\u0633\u0627\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0622\u064a\u0629: 3 ]<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"\u015eüphesiz biz ona (hidâyet ve dalâlet, hay\u0131r ve \u015fer) yolunu gösterdik. \u0130ster (îmân ederek) \u015fükredici olsun, ister (inkâr ederek) kâfir olsun.\" (\u0130nsan Sûresi: 3)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Ba\u015fka bir âyette \u015föyle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

(( \u0648\u064e\u0647\u064e\u062f\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0646\u064e\u0627\u0647\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064e\u062c\u0652\u062f\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0646\u0650 )) [ \u0633\u0648\u0631\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0628\u0644\u062f \u0627\u0644\u0622\u064a\u0629: 10 ]<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Biz ona ki apaç\u0131k yolu (hay\u0131r ve \u015fer yollar\u0131n\u0131) göstermedik mi?\" (Beled Sûresi: 10)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Yine \u015föyle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

(( \u0648\u064e\u0642\u064f\u0644\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u062d\u064e\u0642\u0651\u064f \u0645\u0650\u0646 \u0631\u0651\u064e\u0628\u0651\u0650\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0641\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0646 \u0634\u064e\u0627\u0621 \u0641\u064e\u0644\u0652\u064a\u064f\u0624\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0646 \u0648\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0646 \u0634\u064e\u0627\u0621 \u0641\u064e\u0644\u0652\u064a\u064e\u0643\u0652\u0641\u064f\u0631\u0652...)) [ \u0633\u0648\u0631\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0643\u0647\u0641 \u0645\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0622\u064a\u0629: 29 ]<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"(Ey Nebi! O gâfillere) de ki: (Benim getirmi\u015f oldu\u011fum) hak, Rabbinizdendir. Öyle ise dileyen îmân etsin, dileyen inkâr etsin...      \" (Kehf Sûresi: 29)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\u015eeyhulislâm \u0130bn-i Teymiyye -Allah ona rahmet etsin-, kullar\u0131n fiilleri konusunda ehli sünnetin görü\u015fünü beyan ederek \u015föyle demi\u015ftir:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Kullar, gerçek fâillerdir. Onlar\u0131n fiillerini yaratan ise, Allah Teâlâ'd\u0131r. Kul ise, îmân eden, inkâr eden, Allah'a itaat eden, fâcir, namaz k\u0131lan ve oruç tutand\u0131r. Kullar\u0131n, ameller üzerinde kudretleri ve irâdeleri vard\u0131r. Onlar\u0131n kudretlerini ve irâdelerini yaratan ise, Allah Teâlâ'd\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Nitekim Allah Teâlâ bu konuda \u015föyle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

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\"Sizden, do\u011fru yolda (îmân üzere) gitmek isteyenler için (bu bir ö\u011füttür). Âlemlerin Rabbi Allah dilemedikçe, siz (hiçbir \u015fey) dilemeyemezsiniz (ne do\u011fru yolda gidersiniz, ne de  ona gücünüz yeter).\" (Tekvîr Sûresi: 28-29 )\" (Muhammed Halil Herras; \"Vâs\u0131t\u0131yye Akidesi \u015eerhi\", s: 65)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

 Evlilik; Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n takdir etti\u011fi \u015feylerden birisidir. Allah Teâlâ, seninle evlenecek ki\u015finin kim oldu\u011funu, ne zaman ve nerede do\u011fdu\u011funu ve ne zaman ölece\u011fini, seninle olan hâlinin nas\u0131l olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve daha ba\u015fka detaylar\u0131 (ezelî ilmiyle) bilmi\u015ftir. Allah Teâlâ, bütün bunlar\u0131 bilmi\u015f ve bunu Levh-i Mahfûz'a yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu, Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n takdir etti\u011fi \u015fekilde mutlaka vukû bulacakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Allah Teâlâ, sana bir ki\u015fiyle evlenmeni takdir etmi\u015f ve sen de ba\u015fka birisini seçmi\u015fsen, zaman ne kadar sürerse sürsün, sen (Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n takdir etti\u011fi) o ki\u015fiyle mutlaka evleneceksin. Ba\u015fka birisiyle evlenmen de senin aleyhine takdir edilmi\u015ftir. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla her \u015fey, ancak Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n takdiri ile olur.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Nitekim bir kad\u0131n için falan o\u011flu filanca ile evlenmesi takdir olunmu\u015ftur. Bu falanca ki\u015fi kad\u0131n\u0131 istemeye geldi\u011finde, kad\u0131n onu istemeyip reddeder ve ba\u015fka bir erkekle evlenir.Evlendi\u011fi bu erkek vefat eder veya kendisini bo\u015far, sonra da bu kad\u0131n, o ilk erke\u011fin talebini kabul eder. Bütün bunlar Allah Teâlâ taraf\u0131ndan takdir edilmi\u015ftir.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Kad\u0131n için de bir erke\u011fi reddettikten veya bir deneyimden veya bir musibetten sonra veya buna benzer bir durumdan sonra falan o\u011flu filanca ile evlenmesi, Allah Teâlâ taraf\u0131ndan takdir olunmu\u015ftur.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Bir kad\u0131n için, sâlih bir erkek onunla evlenmek ister, ama kad\u0131n onu reddeder, erkek de bir daha sla ona dönmez. Bu \u015fekilde de takdir edilebilir. Hatta kad\u0131n, kendisiyle evlenmek isteyen o sâlih ki\u015fiden daha sâlih veya ondan daha az sâlih olan birisiyle, Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n onun hakk\u0131nda takdir etti\u011fi \u015fekilde evlenebilir.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\u0130nsan, kendisi için takdir olunan\u0131 bilmedi\u011fine göre, o halde izleyece\u011fi yol, dînine s\u0131ms\u0131k\u0131 sar\u0131lmak, onun emir ve yasaklar\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131 kalmak, sebeplere sar\u0131larak tecrübe sahibi ö\u011füt verenlere dan\u0131\u015ft\u0131ktan sonra her i\u015finde Allah Teâlâ'dan yard\u0131m istemesi ve kendisi için hay\u0131rl\u0131 olan\u0131 dilemesidir.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Ne zaman sâlih bir erkek, evlenmek için bir kad\u0131na tâlip oldu\u011funda, kendisine tâli<\/span><\/p>\r\n

P olunan kad\u0131n, Allah Teâlâ'dan hay\u0131rl\u0131 olan\u0131 istemeli ve onun evlilik teklifini kabul etmelidir. E\u011fer evlilik i\u015fleri yoluna girer de kolay olursa, bu durum, kad\u0131n için bir hay\u0131r oldu\u011funa delâlet eder.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Sözün özü:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\u0130nsan\u0131n, bu konuda Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n \u015feriat\u0131na bakmas\u0131, -nefsi çirkin görse bile-, Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n emrini uygulamas\u0131 ve -nefsi ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 istese bile- Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n yasaklad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyi terk etmesi gerekir. Çünkü hayr\u0131n her türlüsü, Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n emrine uymaktad\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Nitekim Allah Teâlâ bu konuda \u015föyle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

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\"Ho\u015funuza gitmedi\u011fi halde sava\u015f size farz k\u0131l\u0131nd\u0131. Sizin için daha hay\u0131rl\u0131 oldu\u011fu halde bir \u015feyi sevmemeniz mümkündür. Sizin için daha kötü oldu\u011fu halde bir \u015feyi sevmeniz de mümkündür. Allah bilir, siz bilmezsiniz.\" (Bakara Sûresi: 216)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Kaderi gerekçe gösterip Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n emirlerini terk eden ve haramlar\u0131n\u0131 i\u015fleyen kimsenin bak\u0131\u015f\u0131yla kadere bak\u0131lmaz. Aksine istemedi\u011fi ve ho\u015funa gitmeyen elim ve üzücü olaylar gibi \u015feylerde, r\u0131zâ gösterme ve ondan ho\u015fnut olma bak\u0131\u015f\u0131yla kadere bak\u0131l\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Yine de en iyisini Allah Teâlâ bilir.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<\/div>\r\n

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