{"fatawa":{"id":1822,"title":"HAYATTAN BIKMAK VE USANMAK","slug":"hayattan-bikmak-ve-usanmak","order":"","question":"Ben, \u015fu f\u00e2ni d\u00fcnyada hayattan b\u0131km\u0131\u015f ve usanm\u0131\u015f bir gencim. Kendimde b\u0131kk\u0131nl\u0131k ve usanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131k hissediyorum. Bana yard\u0131m edecek biris var m\u0131d\u0131r? Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2'dan da ba\u015fka bir yard\u0131mc\u0131 yoktur?!","answer":"
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Hamd, yaln\u0131zca Allah'ad\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Dünyay\u0131 istememenin ve ondan nefret etmenin sebepleri pek çoktur. \u0130nsanlardan kimisi, Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n nezdinde olan ecir ve sevab\u0131 isteyerek ve O'na kavu\u015fmay\u0131 ümit ederek \u015fu fâni dünyadan nefret eder.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Nitekim seleften baz\u0131 kimseler \u015föyle demi\u015flerdir:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Mü'minin hediyesi, ölümdür.\"<\/em><\/span><\/p>\r\n

Mü'min dünyadan nefret eder. Çünkü kalbi, âhiret ile ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r.Mü'min, dünyadan nefret etmekle birlikte Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n kendisinin üzerindeki hakk\u0131n\u0131 ve kullar\u0131n\u0131n hakk\u0131n\u0131 yerine getirir.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Mü'min, Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

((  \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0639\u0652\u0628\u064f\u062f\u0652 \u0631\u064e\u0628\u0651\u064e\u0643\u064e \u062d\u064e\u062a\u0651\u064e\u0649 \u064a\u064e\u0623\u0652\u062a\u0650\u064a\u064e\u0643\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0652\u064a\u064e\u0642\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064f )) [ \u0633\u0648\u0631\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u062d\u062c\u0631 \u0627\u0644\u0622\u064a\u0629: \u0669\u0669]<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Ve (ey Peygamber!) Sana yakîn (ölüm) gelinceye kadar (hayat\u0131n boyunca) Rabbine ibâdet (etmeye devam) et.\" (Hicr Sûresi: 99).<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Buyurdu\u011fu gibi, gücü yetti\u011fi kadar\u0131yla hay\u0131rda çal\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\u0130nsanlardan kimisi vard\u0131r ki âhiret için dünyadan nefret etmez. Aksine o, dünyada kendisinin nasibinin az, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n ise çok oldu\u011funu gördü\u011fü için (dünyadan nefret eder).<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Hiç \u015füphe yok ki bunda bir tür Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n kaderine dar\u0131lma, memnun olmama ve gücenme vard\u0131r.Oysa kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z veren ve r\u0131z\u0131klar\u0131 taksim eden,Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n tâ kendisidir.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Nitekim Allah Teâlâ bu konuda \u015föyle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

(( \u0648\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0648\u0652 \u0628\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0637\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u0650\u0632\u0652\u0642\u064e \u0644\u0650\u0639\u0650\u0628\u064e\u0627\u062f\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u0644\u064e\u0628\u064e\u063a\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0627 \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0623\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0636\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0643\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u064a\u064f\u0646\u064e\u0632\u0651\u0650\u0644\u064f \u0628\u0650\u0642\u064e\u062f\u064e\u0631\u064d \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u064a\u064e\u0634\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064f \u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0628\u0650\u0639\u0650\u0628\u064e\u0627\u062f\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u062e\u064e\u0628\u0650\u064a\u0631\u064c \u0628\u064e\u0635\u0650\u064a\u0631\u064c )) [ \u0633\u0648\u0631\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0634\u0648\u0631\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0622\u064a\u0629: \u0662\u0667]    <\/em> <\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Allah, kullar\u0131na r\u0131zk\u0131 bol bol verseydi, onlar yeryüzünde (övünerek ve böbürlenerek birbirlerine kar\u015f\u0131) azarlard\u0131. Fakat O, r\u0131zk\u0131 diledi\u011fi ölçüde (onlara yetecek kadar\u0131n\u0131) indirir. \u015eüphesiz ki O, kullar\u0131n\u0131n (menfaatine olan \u015feyden) haberdâr olan, onlar\u0131 (n hallerini) görendir.\" (\u015eûrâ Sûresi: 27).<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\u0130nsanlardan kimisi vard\u0131r ki, belâ, bitkinlik ve yorgunluk gibi \u015feyler çokça ba\u015f\u0131na geldi\u011fi için dünyadan nefret eder. Hiç \u015füphe yok ki bu s\u0131n\u0131f insan da dünya hayat\u0131n\u0131n hakikatini bilememi\u015f demektir. Oysa dünya hayat\u0131, -özellikle de salih mü'min için-  çal\u0131\u015fma ve imtihan olma, yorulma ve bitkin dü\u015fme yurdudur. Çünkü salih mü'min, Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n, bu gibi \u015feyler sebebiyle kendisinin günahlar\u0131n\u0131 silip affedece\u011fi ve cennetteki makam\u0131n\u0131 yükseltece\u011fi her türlü belâlarla kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya kal\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Nitekim Allah Teâlâ bu konuda \u015föyle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

(( \u0644\u064e\u0642\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u062e\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0642\u0652\u0646\u064e\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0625\u0650\u0646\u0652\u0633\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0643\u064e\u0628\u064e\u062f\u064d )) [ \u0633\u0648\u0631\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0628\u0644\u062f \u0627\u0644\u0622\u064a\u0629: 4]<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Andolsun ki biz, insan\u0131 zorluk, imtihan ve çile ile içli d\u0131\u015fl\u0131 yaratt\u0131k.\" (Beled Sûresi: 4)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Yine Allah Teâlâ \u015föyle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

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\"\u0130nsanlar, imtihandan geçirilmeden sadece 'îmân ettik' demekle b\u0131rak\u0131l\u0131vereceklerini mi sand\u0131lar? Andolsun ki biz, (kendilerine elçilerimizi gönderdi\u011fimiz) onlardan önceki (ümmet)leri de imtihandan geçirmi\u015fizdir. Elbette Allah, (her grubu bir di\u011ferinden ay\u0131rt etmek için îmânlar\u0131nda) samimî olanlarla, yalanc\u0131lar\u0131n yalan\u0131n\u0131 ortaya ç\u0131karacakt\u0131r.\" (Ankebût Sûresi: 2-3)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Yine Allah Teâlâ \u015föyle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

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\"Allah, mü'min ile kâfiri birbirinden ay\u0131rt edinceye kadar mü'minleri içinde bulundu\u011funuz durumda b\u0131rakacak de\u011fildir. Bununla beraber (ey mü'minler!) Allah size (mü'mini kâfirden ay\u0131rt edecek) gayb\u0131 da bildirecek de\u011fildir.Fakat Allah, (vahiy yoluyla) elçilerinden diledi\u011fine (gayb\u0131) bildirir. O halde Allah’a ve elçilerine îmân edin. E\u011fer (gerçekten samimî bir \u015fekilde) îmân eder ve Allah’a kar\u015f\u0131 gelmekten sak\u0131n\u0131rsan\u0131z, size (Allah kat\u0131nda) büyük mükâfat vard\u0131r.\" (Âl-i \u0130mran Sûresi: 179)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Yine Allah Teâlâ \u015föyle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

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\"Andolsun ki biz, sizi biraz korku ve açl\u0131k ile ya da (zor elde edilmesi veya yok olmas\u0131yla) mallardan, (ölmek veya Allah yolunda \u015fehit olmakla) candan veya ürünlerden biraz azaltmakla deneriz.(Ey Peygamber!) Sen (bunlara) sabredenleri (dünya ve âhirette onlar\u0131 sevindirecek güzel âkibetle) müjdele! Sab\u0131rl\u0131lar o kimselerdir ki ba\u015flar\u0131na (ho\u015flanmad\u0131klar\u0131) bir musîbet geldi\u011finde, 'Biz, Allah’\u0131n kullar\u0131y\u0131z (O, bize diledi\u011fini yapar) ve biz, (ölüm ve ölümden sonra hesap vermek için yeniden dirili\u015fle) elbette O’na dönece\u011fiz' derler. \u0130\u015fte Rableri taraf\u0131ndan bol ma\u011ffiret ve rahmete mazhar olanlar onlard\u0131r. Hidâyete erenler de ancak onlard\u0131r.\" (Bakara Sûresi: 155-157)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

K\u0131ymetli karde\u015fim...<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Bana söyler misin, sen yukar\u0131da say\u0131lan hangi s\u0131n\u0131ftan olmak istersin?<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Sevgili karde\u015fim...<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Peygamber -sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem-'in nice belâ ve musibetlere maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, kavminin kendisine dü\u015fman oldu\u011funu, en yak\u0131n insanlar\u0131n bile kendisinin yüzüne kar\u015f\u0131 durdu\u011funu, baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131n kendisine sövüp kötü sözler söyledi\u011fini, baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n ise ona eziyet etti\u011fini, yurdundan kovdu\u011funu ve çok çetin bir boykota maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, kâfirlerin kendisini öldürmek ve suikast düzenlemek üzere birle\u015fti\u011fini, en zor durum ve \u015fartlarda e\u015fi Hatice'nin vefat etti\u011fini, bazen bir ay, bazen de iki ay boyunca hurma ve sudan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey bulamadan geceledi\u011fini hat\u0131rlar m\u0131s\u0131n! Bütün bunlar, o Allah'\u0131n nebisi, rasûlü ve vahyinin emîni olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen onun ba\u015f\u0131na gelmi\u015ftir!!<\/span><\/p>\r\n

O, geçmi\u015f ve gelecek bütün günahlar\u0131 Allah Teâlâ taraf\u0131ndan ba\u011f\u0131\u015flanm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen bütün bunlara maruz kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

O halde bizim gibi günahkârlar\u0131n, isyankârlar\u0131n, ihmalkârlar\u0131n hâlleri nice olacakt\u0131r?<\/span><\/p>\r\n

K\u0131ymetli karde\u015fim...<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Sana \u015funlar\u0131 tavsiye ediyorum:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Birincisi: <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Allah -azze ve celle-'ye bol bol duâ etmelisin, namaz, zekât ve oruç gibi her türlü ibâdetlerle O'nun r\u0131zâs\u0131na yak\u0131nla\u015fmaya çal\u0131\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n, içerisinde bulundu\u011fun s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131dan seni kurtarmas\u0131 ve gönlünü ferahlatmas\u0131 için Allah -azze ve celle-'ye yalvar\u0131p yakarmal\u0131s\u0131n.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Nitekim Allah Teâlâ \u015föyle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

((\u0627\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0630\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0622\u0645\u064e\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0627\u0652 \u0648\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0637\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0626\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064f \u0642\u064f\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0628\u064f\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0628\u0650\u0630\u0650\u0643\u0652\u0631\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u0650 \u0623\u064e\u0644\u0627\u064e \u0628\u0650\u0630\u0650\u0643\u0652\u0631\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u0650 \u062a\u064e\u0637\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0626\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0642\u064f\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0628\u064f )) [\u0633\u0648\u0631\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0639\u062f \u0627\u0644\u0622\u064a\u0629: 28]<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Onlar, îmân eden ve gönülleri Allah’\u0131 zikretmekle sükûnet bulanlard\u0131r.(O’nu anmakla huzur bulan kimselerdir). Bilesiniz ki, gönüller ancak Allah’\u0131 anmakla huzur bulur.\" (Ra'd Sûresi: 28)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Yine, Allah Teâlâ \u015föyle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

(( \u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0630\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0627\u062a\u0651\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0648\u0627\u0652 \u0625\u0650\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u0645\u064e\u0633\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0637\u064e\u0627\u0626\u0650\u0641\u064c \u0645\u0650\u0646\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0634\u0651\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0637\u064e\u0627\u0646\u0650 \u062a\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0643\u0651\u064e\u0631\u064f\u0648\u0627\u0652 \u0641\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0645\u064f\u0628\u0652\u0635\u0650\u0631\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e )) [\u0633\u0648\u0631\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0623\u0639\u0631\u0627\u0641 \u0627\u0644\u0622\u064a\u0629: 201]<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"(Farzlar\u0131n\u0131 yerine getirmek ve yasaklar\u0131ndan da sak\u0131nmak sûretiyle) Allah’tan  sak\u0131nanlar var ya, onlara \u015feytan taraf\u0131ndan bir vesvese dokundu\u011fu zaman, (Allah'\u0131n kendilerine farz k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 taat ve tevbeyi) hat\u0131rlay\u0131p (Allah'a kar\u015f\u0131 gelmeyi) hemen b\u0131rak\u0131rlar (Allah'\u0131n emrini tutarlar ve \u015feytana kar\u015f\u0131 gelirler).\" (A'râf Sûresi: 201)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\u0130kincisi:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

K\u0131ymetli karde\u015fim...<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Bilmelisin ki, Allah -azze ve celle-'nin takdir etti\u011fi \u015feylerin hepsi, mü'min kulu için bir hay\u0131rd\u0131r ve hayat\u0131n ne kadar s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 olursa olsun, Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n kat\u0131nda göklerin ve yerin hazinelerinin anahtarlar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu sebeple kendinle Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n aras\u0131n\u0131 düzeltirsen, Allah Teâlâ da seni insanlara muhtaç olmaktan kurtaracakt\u0131r.  <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Üçüncüsü:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Keder ve üzüntün, elde edemeyip f\u0131rsat\u0131n\u0131 kaç\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015feyler için olmal\u0131d\u0131r. O zaman bilmelisin ki, bir \u015feyi talep etmek için onda \u0131srar eden, fakat kendisinin helak\u0131n\u0131n o \u015feyde oldu\u011funu bilemeyen nice insan vard\u0131r. Yine, istedi\u011fi \u015feyleri elde edemedi\u011fi için üzülen, ama onlar\u0131 elde etseydi dînini ve dünyas\u0131n\u0131 kaybedecek olan nice insan vard\u0131r.Bu sebeple Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n kaza ve kaderine râz\u0131 olmal\u0131s\u0131n, Allah Teâlâ'dan yard\u0131m dilemelisin ve acziyete dü\u015fmemelisin.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Dördüncüsü:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Rabbinle daha dikkatli bir \u015fekilde alakay\u0131 kurabilmen için kalbini ve gönlünü tekrar gözden geçirmelisin. Çünkü kul, i\u015fledi\u011fi günah sebebiyle r\u0131z\u0131ktan mahrum olur.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Be\u015fincisi:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Belki senin \u015fahsî veya âilevî problemlerin olabilir. Bu problemlerin çözümü ise, onlar\u0131 önceliklerine göre s\u0131ralay\u0131p düzenlemen gerekir. Bu problemlerin çözümü için de önce Allah Teâlâ'dan, sonra da tecrübe sahibi kimselerden yard\u0131m istemelisin.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Alt\u0131nc\u0131s\u0131:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Bilmelisin ki insanlar içerisinde en çok ve en çetin zorluk ve belâya u\u011frayanlar, peygamberlerdir. Sonra takvâ yönünden fazîletli olanlar, en çok ve en çetin belâ ve musibete u\u011frarlar.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Nitekim \u0130mam Ahmed'in Müsnedi'nde, Mus'ab b. Sa'd'\u0131n babas\u0131ndan rivâyet etti\u011fi hadiste o \u015föyle demi\u015ftir:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

(( \u0642\u064f\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064f \u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u0650! \u0623\u064e\u064a\u0651\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0633\u0650 \u0623\u064e\u0634\u064e\u062f\u0651\u064f \u0628\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064b\u061f \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e: \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652\u0628\u0650\u064a\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064f\u060c \u062b\u064f\u0645\u0651\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0635\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0650\u062d\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e\u060c \u062b\u064f\u0645\u0651\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0623\u064e\u0645\u0652\u062b\u064e\u0644\u064f \u0641\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0623\u064e\u0645\u0652\u062b\u064e\u0644\u064f \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0633\u0650\u060c \u064a\u064f\u0628\u0652\u062a\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u062c\u064f\u0644\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u062d\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0628\u0650 \u062f\u0650\u064a\u0646\u0650\u0647\u0650\u060c \u0641\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0643\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u0641\u0650\u064a \u062f\u0650\u064a\u0646\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u0635\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0628\u064e\u0629\u064c \u0632\u0650\u064a\u062f\u064e \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0628\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0626\u0650\u0647\u0650\u060c \u0648\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0643\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u0641\u0650\u064a \u062f\u0650\u064a\u0646\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u0631\u0650\u0642\u0651\u064e\u0629\u064c \u062e\u064f\u0641\u0651\u0650\u0641\u064e \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652\u0647\u064f\u060c \u0648\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u064a\u064e\u0632\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0628\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064f \u0628\u0650\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0639\u064e\u0628\u0652\u062f\u0650 \u062d\u064e\u062a\u0651\u064e\u0649 \u064a\u064e\u0645\u0652\u0634\u0650\u064a\u064e \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0638\u064e\u0647\u0652\u0631\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0623\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0636\u0650 \u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0633\u064e \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u0650 \u062e\u064e\u0637\u0650\u064a\u0626\u064e\u0629\u064c.)) [\u0631\u0648\u0627\u0647 \u0623\u062d\u0645\u062f  \u0648\u0642\u0627\u0644 \u0634\u0639\u064a\u0628 \u0627\u0644\u0623\u0631\u0646\u0624\u0648\u0637: \u0625\u0633\u0646\u0627\u062f\u0647 \u062d\u0633\u0646\u060c \u0648\u0635\u062d\u062d\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0623\u0644\u0628\u0627\u0646\u064a \u0641\u064a \u0635\u062d\u064a\u062d \u0627\u0644\u062c\u0627\u0645\u0639]<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Ey Allah'\u0131n elçisi! \u0130nsanlar içerisinde en çok ve en çetin zorluk ve belâya u\u011frayan kimlerdir? Dedim.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Rasûlullah -sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem- buyurdu ki:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

- Peygamberler, sonra sâlih kimseler, sonra da insanlar içerisinde fazîlet yönünden Allah'a daha yak\u0131n olanlar (sevab\u0131 daha büyük olsun diye) zorluk ve belâya u\u011frarlar.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

- Ki\u015fi, (zay\u0131f veya kuvvetli, kâmil veya noksan olmas\u0131 bak\u0131m\u0131ndan) dînine göre imtihan olunur.E\u011fer dîninde güçlü ve kuvvetli ise, belâs\u0131 artt\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r (belâs\u0131 daha çetin olur), yok dîninde zay\u0131f ise, belâs\u0131 ondan hafifletilir. Kul, belâya u\u011frat\u0131lmaya devam eder de nihâyet yeryüzünde günahs\u0131z olarak dola\u015f\u0131r (günahlar\u0131na keffâret olur) hâle gelir.\" (\u0130mam Ahmed Müsnedi; hadis no: 1481. De\u011ferli âlim Abdulkâdir el-Arnaût: 'Hadisin senedi hasendir', demi\u015ftir. Elbânî de 'Sahîhu'l-Câmi'; hadis no: 992'de :Hadis sahihtir, demi\u015ftir.)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Yedincisi:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\u0130sti\u011ffara ve ibâdetlere devam etmelisin. Bu, senin için ne kadar büyük olursa olsun, ne kadar önemli olursa olsun, dünyada bulunan her \u015feyden daha hay\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130sti\u011ffar ve ibadetler, insandaki keder ve üzüntüyü giderir.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Nitekim baz\u0131 eserlerde rivâyet olundu\u011fu üzere, kim isti\u011ffara devam ederse, Allah Teâlâ onun için her s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131dan bir ç\u0131k\u0131\u015f yolu, her kedere bir ferahl\u0131k ve çare k\u0131lar ve onu ummad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerden r\u0131z\u0131kland\u0131r\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Bu sebeple Allah -azze ve celle-'ye taate devam etmelisin ve Allah Teâlâ'n\u0131n \u015fu emirlerine göre hareket etmelisin:<\/span><\/p>\r\n

((  \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0639\u0652\u0628\u064f\u062f\u0652 \u0631\u064e\u0628\u0651\u064e\u0643\u064e \u062d\u064e\u062a\u0651\u064e\u0649 \u064a\u064e\u0623\u0652\u062a\u0650\u064a\u064e\u0643\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0652\u064a\u064e\u0642\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064f )) [ \u0633\u0648\u0631\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u062d\u062c\u0631 \u0627\u0644\u0622\u064a\u0629: \u0669\u0669]<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Ve (ey Peygamber!) Sana yakîn (ölüm) gelinceye kadar (hayat\u0131n boyunca) Rabbine ibâdet (etmeye devam) et.\" (Hicr Sûresi: 99).<\/span><\/p>\r\n

(( \u0648\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627 \u062a\u064e\u0645\u064f\u062f\u0651\u064e\u0646\u0651\u064e \u0639\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0646\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0643\u064e \u0625\u0650\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0645\u064e\u062a\u0651\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0646\u064e\u0627 \u0628\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u0623\u064e\u0632\u0652\u0648\u064e\u0627\u062c\u0627\u064b \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0632\u064e\u0647\u0652\u0631\u064e\u0629\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0640\u062d\u064e\u064a\u064e\u0627\u0629\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u062f\u0651\u064f\u0646\u0652\u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0644\u0650\u0646\u064e\u0641\u0652\u062a\u0650\u0646\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0641\u0650\u064a\u0647\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0631\u0650\u0632\u0652\u0642\u064f \u0631\u064e\u0628\u0651\u0650\u0643\u064e \u062e\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u064c \u0648\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0628\u0652\u0642\u064e\u0649 )) [ \u0633\u0648\u0631\u0629 \u0637\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0622\u064a\u0629: 131]<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"(Ey Peygamber!) Sak\u0131n kendilerini denemek için onlardan bir kesimi (mü\u015frikleri) faydaland\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z dünya hayat\u0131n\u0131n (geçici) çekicili\u011fine gözlerini dikme! Rabbinin nimeti (ve sevab\u0131) hem daha hay\u0131rl\u0131, hem de daha süreklidir.\" (Tâhâ Sûresi: 131)<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Allah Teâlâ bizi ve seni, söz ve amelin güzeline muvaffak k\u0131ls\u0131n.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Allah Teâlâ en iyi bilendir.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Bu konuda (21515<\/a>), (30901<\/a>) ve (2554<\/a>) nolu sorular\u0131n cevaplar\u0131na bakabilirsiniz.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Ayr\u0131ca web sitemizin kitaplar bölümünde \"Keder ve Üzüntülerin \u0130lac\u0131\" adl\u0131 kitaba bakabilirsiniz.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<\/div>\r\n

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