{"fatawa":{"id":8199,"title":"KARISINA KAR\u015eI C\u0130NSEL G\u00d6REVLER\u0130N\u0130 YER\u0130NE GET\u0130REMEYECE\u011e\u0130N\u0130 B\u0130LEN B\u0130R K\u0130MSEN\u0130N ELLE BO\u015eALMASI (MASTURBASYON YAPMASI) C\u00c2\u0130Z OLUR MU?","slug":"karisina-karsi-cinsel-goerevlerini-yerine-getiremeyecegini-bilen-bir-kimsenin-elle-bosalmasi-masturbasyon-yapmasi-caiz-olur-mu","order":"","question":"\u0130sl\u00e2m \u015feriat\u0131na g\u00f6re, evlenmeye g\u00fcc\u00fc yeten bir kimsenin, me\u015fr\u00fb olmayan cinsel davran\u0131\u015flara d\u00fc\u015fmemek i\u00e7in en yak\u0131n bir zamanda evlenmesi gerekir. Bu me\u015fr\u00fb olmayan yollardan birisi de elle bo\u015falmak (masturbasyon yapmak)t\u0131r. Fakat bir erkek, han\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n kendisinin \u00fczerindeki haklardan birisi olan cinsel haklar\u0131n\u0131 yerine getiremeyece\u011fnden emin ise, ne yapmal\u0131d\u0131r? \r\nBu kimsenin hemen evlenmesi gerekir mi? \r\nYoksa bu kimsenin elle bo\u015falmas\u0131 (masturbasyon yapmas\u0131) c\u00e2iz midir?","answer":"Hamd, Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2'yad\u0131r.\r\n\r\nPeygamber -sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem- bu konuda \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur:\r\n\r\n(( \u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0645\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0634\u064e\u0631\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0634\u0651\u064e\u0628\u064e\u0627\u0628\u0650! \u0645\u064e\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0633\u0652\u062a\u064e\u0637\u064e\u0627\u0639\u064e \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652\u0643\u064f\u0645\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0628\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064e\u0629\u064e \u0641\u064e\u0644\u0652\u064a\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0632\u064e\u0648\u0651\u064e\u062c\u0652\u060c \u0648\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0644\u064e\u0645\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u0633\u0652\u062a\u064e\u0637\u0650\u0639\u0652 \u0641\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u0650 \u0628\u0650\u0627\u0644\u0635\u0651\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0645\u0650\u061b \u0641\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0648\u0650\u062c\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064c.)) [\u0631\u0648\u0627\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0628\u062e\u0627\u0631\u064a]\r\n\r\n\"Ey gen\u00e7ler toplulu\u011fu! Sizden kim, evlenme imk\u00e2n\u0131na sahip olur ve buna g\u00fcc\u00fc yeterse, evlensin. Evlenmeye g\u00fcc\u00fc yetmeyen ise oru\u00e7 tutsun. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc oru\u00e7,(harama d\u00fc\u015fmekten) bir him\u00e2yedir.\" (Buh\u00e2r\u00ee; nikah bab\u0131, hadis no: 4677).\r\n\r\n\u0130bn-i Hacer -Allah ona rahmet etsin- \"Fethu'l-B\u00e2r\u00ee\" adl\u0131 eserinde \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015ftir:\r\n\r\n\"\u0130sl\u00e2m \u00e2limleri, erke\u011fi evlenme konusunda k\u0131s\u0131mlara ay\u0131rm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r:\r\n\r\nBunlardan birincisi: Evlenmeyi arzulayan, evlenme masraflar\u0131na g\u00fc\u00e7 yetiren ve zin\u00e2ya d\u00fc\u015fmekten korkan kimsedir. B\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e2limlere g\u00f6re bu kimsenin evlenmesi mendubdur. Hanbel\u00eeler, bir riv\u00e2yette bu kimsenin evlenmesinin farz oldu\u011fu g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcndedirler.Fakat \u0130mam Ahmed'in me\u015fhur olan g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fc, evlenmeye g\u00fcc\u00fc yeten ve evlenmeyi arzulayan kimsenin evlenmesinin farz olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Ancak zin\u00e2ya d\u00fc\u015fmekten korkmas\u0131, bunun d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndad\u0131r.\r\n\r\n\u0130bn-i Dak\u00eek el-\u00ceyd \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015ftir: 'Fakihler, nikah\u0131 (evlenmeyi) be\u015f f\u0131kh\u00ee h\u00fckme (farz, haram, mekruh, m\u00fcbah, mendup) ay\u0131rm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r:\r\n\r\nBir kimse zin\u00e2ya d\u00fc\u015fmekten korkar, nikaha (evlenmeye) g\u00fcc\u00fc yeter ve endi\u015feden kurtulup rahatlamas\u0131 imk\u00e2ns\u0131zla\u015f\u0131rsa, bu takdirde onun evlenmesi farzd\u0131r.\r\n\r\nYine \u0130mam Kurtub\u00ee baz\u0131 \u00e2limlerinden -ki o, el-M\u00e2zir\u00ee'dir- \u015f\u00f6yle dedi\u011fini anlatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r:\r\n\r\n'Evlilik olmadan, zin\u00e2dan geri duramayan kimsenin evlenmesi, farzd\u0131r.'\r\n\r\nYine \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015ftir:\r\n\r\n'\u0130mkan\u0131 ve iste\u011fi olmamakla birlikte e\u015fiyle cinsel ili\u015fkiye girmek ve ona infakta bulunmak konusunda kusur eden kimsenin evlenmesi, haramd\u0131r.'\r\n\r\nes-Seff\u00e2r\u00een\u00ee de \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015ftir:\r\n\r\n'E\u015fine infakta bulunamayacak kadar fakir olan, \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p onun ge\u00e7imini temin edemeyecek durumda olan ve \u015fehveti de olmayan kimsenin, evlenme masraflar\u0131na g\u00fcc\u00fc yetmeyece\u011fi, han\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n \u015fehvetini gideremeyece\u011fi ve evlili\u011fe de ihtiyac\u0131 olmayaca\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in evlenmesi mekruhtur.\"  Bkz: (\u011eiz\u00e2u'l-Elb\u00e2b; c: 2, s: 434).\r\n\r\n\u0130y\u00e2z \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015ftir:\r\n\r\n\"Kendisinden z\u00fcrriyet (nesil) yapmas\u0131 beklenen herkesin, -cinsel ili\u015fkiye girmek i\u00e7in \u015fehveti olmasa bile- evlenmesi mendubdur.\r\n\r\nNitekim Ras\u00fblullah -sallallau aleyhi ve sellem- bu konuda \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur:\r\n\r\n(( \u062a\u064e\u0632\u064e\u0648\u0651\u064e\u062c\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0648\u064e\u0644\u064f\u0648\u062f\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0648\u064e\u062f\u064f\u0648\u062f\u064e \u0641\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u0650\u064a \u0645\u064f\u0643\u064e\u0627\u062b\u0650\u0631\u064c \u0628\u0650\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652.)) [ \u0631\u0648\u0627\u0647 \u0623\u0628\u0648 \u062f\u0627\u0648\u062f \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0646\u0633\u0627\u0626\u064a \u0648\u0627\u0628\u0646 \u0645\u0627\u062c\u0647]\r\n\r\n\"Kocas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok seven ve \u00e7ok do\u011furan kad\u0131nla evlenin.Zir\u00e2 ben, (k\u0131y\u00e2met g\u00fcn\u00fc di\u011fer peygamberlere kar\u015f\u0131) sizin \u00e7oklu\u011funuzla iftihar edece\u011fim.\" (Ebu Davud, Nes\u00e2\u00ee ve \u0130bn-i M\u00e2ce).\r\n\r\nAyr\u0131ca Peygamber -sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem- evlenmeye te\u015fvik etmi\u015f ve bunu a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a emretmi\u015ftir.\r\n\r\nYine, cinsel ili\u015fkiye girmenin d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda kad\u0131nlardan faydanlanmak istemeyen kimsenin de evlenmesi mendubdur.Z\u00fcrriyet sahibi olma g\u00fcc\u00fcne sahip olmayan (k\u0131s\u0131r olan) ve kad\u0131nlarla evlenip onlardan faydalanma iste\u011fi ve arzusu olmayan kimseye gelince, -kad\u0131n onun bu durumda oldu\u011funu bilir ve buna r\u00e2z\u0131 olursa- bu takdirde bu kimsenin evlenmesi m\u00fcbaht\u0131r.\"\r\n\r\nYukar\u0131da zikredilen hadiste, elle bo\u015falman\u0131n (masturbasyonun) haram oldu\u011funa bir delil vard\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc elle bo\u015falmak me\u015fr\u00fb olsayd\u0131, Peygamber -sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem- mutlaka ona y\u00f6nlendirir ve onu te\u015fvik ederdi.\r\n\r\nBu konuda (329) nolu sorunun cevab\u0131na bakabilirsiniz.\r\n\r\nBir insan, Allah r\u0131z\u00e2s\u0131 i\u00e7in, Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2'n\u0131n kendisine haram k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feye sabreder de onu terkederse, hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcphe yok ki, Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2 k\u0131y\u00e2met g\u00fcn\u00fc mutlaka ona ecrini ve m\u00fckafat\u0131n\u0131 verecektir. Zir\u00e2 Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2 i\u00e7in bir \u015feyi terkeden kimseyi, Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2 onun daha hay\u0131rl\u0131s\u0131yla m\u00fckafatland\u0131r\u0131r.\r\n\r\nAllah Te\u00e2l\u00e2'n\u0131n, m\u00fc'minlerin vas\u0131flar\u0131n\u0131 belirtirken \u015fu \u00e2yetlerde buyurdu\u011fu gibi, evlenmek mendubdur:\r\n\r\n(( \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0630\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0644\u0650\u0641\u064f\u0631\u064f\u0648\u062c\u0650\u0647\u0650\u0645\u0652 \u062d\u064e\u0627\u0641\u0650\u0638\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e (5) \u0625\u0650\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0627 \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0623\u064e\u0632\u0652\u0648\u064e\u0627\u062c\u0650\u0647\u0650\u0645\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0648\u0652 \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0645\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0643\u064e\u062a\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064f\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0641\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u063a\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u064f \u0645\u064e\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0645\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e (6) \u0641\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0628\u0652\u062a\u064e\u063a\u064e\u0649 \u0648\u064e\u0631\u064e\u0627\u0621 \u0630\u064e\u0644\u0650\u0643\u064e \u0641\u064e\u0623\u064f\u0648\u0652\u0644\u064e\u0626\u0650\u0643\u064e \u0647\u064f\u0645\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0639\u064e\u0627\u062f\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e (7)) [\u0633\u0648\u0631\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0624\u0645\u0646\u0648\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0622\u064a\u0627\u062a:5-7]\r\n\r\n\"Onlar ki iffetlerini (edep yerlerini, Allah'\u0131n haram k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 zin\u00e2, e\u015fcinsellik ve her t\u00fcrl\u00fc fuh\u015fiyattan) korurlar. Yaln\u0131z e\u015fleri ve cariyeleri bunun d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndad\u0131r. (Bunlarla cinsel ili\u015fkiye girmelerinden dolay\u0131) k\u0131nanm\u0131\u015f de\u011fillerdir.\u015eu halde kim, bu s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131n \u00f6tesine ge\u00e7mek isterse, i\u015fte bunlar, haddi a\u015fan kimselerdir!\" (M\u00fc'min\u00fbn S\u00fbresi: 5-7).\r\n\r\nBuna g\u00f6re, (evlenemeyen) her m\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131n, Ras\u00fblullah -sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem-'in y\u00f6nlendirdi\u011fi ve te\u015fvik etti\u011fi \u015fer'\u00ee yola girmesi yani oru\u00e7 tutmas\u0131 gerekir.\r\n\r\nAllah Te\u00e2l\u00e2 bizi ve seni harama d\u00fc\u015fmekten korusun.\r\n\r\nAllah Te\u00e2l\u00e2 en iyi bilendir.\r\n\r\nMuhammed b. 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